Flower shops – Convey It With an arrangement of Flowers
What causes you to feel as extraordinary as getting a Bouquet of Flowers at workplace or at home. To feel that somebody put forth effort and money to buy you flowers can immediately make your day better. If it is for your birthday, anniversary, an ” I’m sorry” or just because, a bouquet of flowers can make the perfect present for any occasion.
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Trouble Finding Love? How Can I Find Perfect Love?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
Fran from Idaho emailed me this question, “How do I find my ideal partner?”
Asking how to find love is important.. Before you can attract what you want in your ideal relationship, you need to be absolutely sure what you want and what you won’t accept. By asking yourself the question and writing it down, you’ll start the important first step.
Many people just figure that they’ll wait and see who shows up and decide from there. But that conveys a weak desire You can’t get very far with weak desire. I’ve always found that a good life coach helps a great deal.
I recommend that you probe the depths of your heart.. You can keep your personal work private. But you do want to make a detailed list. As you’re writing your list, pay attention to the way you feel. Are you feeling hopeful or doubtful? This is an emotional tool to help you know how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..
- When you’re fulfilled in the love of your dream
- When you have that special one to plan weekends with
- When you introduce him to your friends and they love him
Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.
Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to think small, play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much determination. That is, we have the energy of low expectancy that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.
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New York City Florists – Convey It With a Flower Delivery
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Do you want to proclaim your love to someone? The ideal style to do that is with flower arrangements. Whether you opt to prove your immortal crush with red roses or another flower arrangement, expression ” I love you” is made yet more pleasant with a flower delivery.
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Advice to Engaged Couples, Newly Weds and WannaBees
I have witnessed, both within my own family, in the outside world and in my practice, what can happen in a relationship if there is no common bond that can actually bind a couple together.
Well, let me digress (or maybe, progress) and say a bit about getting together as a couple in the first place: even if there is a strong attraction, be it physical, mental or emotional: Love; That does not seem to be enough to keep a couple together; the body will wither, the mind will change and the emotions will flutter. And love may turn into a dependency or habit. Unless, there is a third entity; the glue that binds the one to the other; the bond that binds, a mutual goal and lifetime commitment to it. The “it” needs to be greater that both of you, a driving force that can take both of you, like a boat down the river, or an ark during a flood (and floods there will be) …
In my opinion, there are two good bonds; children and Religion or a Spiritual Practice (to be more politically correct, or any other proven external disciplinary way of life that both parties agreed to commit to whole-heartedly, abide by, follow and emulate; the goal). With both of these present, the chances are multiplies exponentially. But, even with both of these, there are no garantees.
Without these, there is no common bond; it’s just two people living separate lives together: convenient for a nice meal, some ambience, safe sex, and the occasional meaningful conversation …
So, both parties must have the same intent or lifetime goal. Otherwise, both sides will be resentful, because, in any situation, for any important decision, no compromise can satisfy both of the parties, because their primary motivating goals are different; or they have no primary motivating goals and “just don’t feel like it” at the time. And so there is no improvement in the situation and resentments, anger, etc. build; and there is no possibility for a long-term relationship.
A tendency towards negativity, insecurity and fear/anxiety may sometimes seem to obscure love. But this is who the person is at the moment; and they are perfect the way they are.
Love may sometimes seem to be obscured by a tendency towards not wanting to be so depended upon by the other, for their happiness, security and emotional wellbeing. But this is who that person is at the moment; and perfect the way they are.
Much of this may stem from residual family entanglements. “Inherited” family control issues may the the cause of some behaviors. Some behaviors may come from family insecurity issues.
There are a few key issues that need to be kept in mind: Trust! Honesty! One must trust the other, as the right hand trusts the left. And one must be honest and trustworthy, inside the relationship and in the world at large as well; trusting yourself, being honest with yourself and trusting your partner and being honest with your partner, and being trustworthy and honest in all your dealings in the world. In other words, your thoughts, speech and actions should always be in line with a clear conscience.
There are times when you will feel rejected or abandoned, based on your perception of the situation. There is usually no reason to feel this way; from the other’s standpoint, it’s not about you, it may be about their family control issues.
At times you may feel that you would appear weak if you give in to the desires of the other. There is no reason to feel weak by giving in: remember the bond that binds; you can show your compassion and accommodation of what may be the other’s family insecurity issues.
Besides the above mentioned, or perhaps, because of the above mentioned, there may be a lack of real compassion and empathy on the part of both parties for each other. To see the world from the other persons heart and to trust the other person, that they are doing the best they can. To see them as perfect, the way they are. (Don’t get me wrong: I’m not saying that there is no room for improvement.) To realize the person is always more important than any ideology or material object or goal; the relationship comes first.
Perhaps ask; what’s the worst thing that can happen if the worst thing happens. In most cases, upon sober reflection, the answer is; nothing very devastating. Again, the third entity, the bond that binds, the trust in that everything that happens is only good.
There is a need for genuine compassion and complete acceptance of the other as perfect as they are; acknowledgement and acceptance of each others needs and idiosyncrasies and the commitment and willingness to live with them as they are, for as long as they are that way. And how can we come to such a point. History has shown, as do presetn day successful marriages, that there is a bond that binds one love ot the other. This “glue” comes in the form of a “third party”.
The other person; their feelings, hopes, dreams, goals must be your own as well: you are one; heads and tails of the same coin. One spirit, one soul, split off into two bodies.
It says, “All beginnings are difficult”. And while this may be so, you can ensure that the trip will be worthwhile and pleasant for you and for all of those who love you, by heading in the right direction, with the right foot, for the right reasons, towards the right goal …
Abraham Bruck is the developer of the Universal Healing Technique and the UHT Lifetime Trauma Resolution Protocol.
What’s the Secret to Finding Lasting Love?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor, writes… …
I get asked questions about how to find love , the kind of love that lasts. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.
1. I’m in my mid-40′s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?
Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.
If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. When you find out what that belief is, do whatever it takes to soothe yourself about it. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.
2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.
Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your dreams shows up … you plan a fun weekend getaway for her … you hold hands and tell jokes … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.
Dating Consciously – Your Attitude Speaks Volumes
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach, writes… …
Here are some dating tips and insights to help you get back into the game, especially if you’re dating after divorce. In the last of our series on Dating Consciously, “
Looks Aren’t Everything,” we’ll take a closer look at the visual side of appearance. Here are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating. The most important attributes in a mate
- Personality 30%
- Sense of Humor 14%
- Smile 12%
- Looks 11%
- Eyes 10%
- Hair 7%
- Education 7%
- Physique 5%
- Career 3%
- Popularity 0%
As you can see, Personality rated top, overwhelmingly!
What does that say about a person? It says that personality is a desirable trait from either person’s point of view.
Appearance is often categorized as a person’s physical attractiveness. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth and authenticity are the traits that win out over Physical Appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.
What are characteristics of personality? Self-confidence. The ability to communicate openly in a easy and engaging manner. What are inherent traits of self-confidence?
1. Being clear on an objective.
2. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.
3. Self-esteem.
4. Under most circumstances you remain non-plussed.
What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearance. Many people I know getting back into the dating game get stopped with the externals of the game.
The internal dialog stops you from ever getting back into circulation: “I’m no longer a spring chicken,”"I can’t compete with the hotties,”"The singles scene seems so superficial.”
Putting your best foot forward, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile, will make all the difference. Realize that you don’t have to do the singles thing. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.
From the perspective of a Law of Attraction Coach, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it IS) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.
“To be in the Dating Consciously mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success”.
To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. So choose it to be fun.
Try scripting your desired outcome for any date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might be pleasantly surprised.
Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Empower yourself by taking 100% responsibility for your joy and self-expression. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.
Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. We play to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. And remember to enjoy the journey.
Singles Holiday Tips
Perhaps the traditional notion of holidays is getting away from it all and enjoying some sun, sand and maybe a drink or two. However, one of the fastest growing sectors in the holiday industry is the singles holiday, particularly luxury cruises singles holidays. On these holidays there are lots of single men and women who go to have a good time but also with the intention of meeting someone special. Making a good impression on these holidays is not always the easiest thing to do, so here is some advice to help you out.
Have a glow. If you are going to a hot location like you might do on silversea cruises, it’s not great to be turning up looking like a milk bottle. Having a little colour makes a big difference, especially as first impressions count for a lot of these types of holiday. Don’t get carried away and end up looking like you’ve emptied a whole body of fake tan on yourself, a healthy glow will do
Relax. Those people who do not open up and share their thoughts and feelings, or are just too nervous to speak to anyone, rarely build relationships. You’ll find that everyone on these types of holidays are in the same situation and will much more willing to communicate if you let your guard down, if only just a little bit. If you were introduced to a very nervous person, you would wonder what they were worrying about and advise them to just be themselves. Thus, you should listen your own advice
Enjoy yourself. Following on from the last point, finding someone and living happily ever after should not be the be all and end all of your holiday. When all is said and done, holidays are about having some time to enjoy yourself and not worry about things, and this should be the same wherever you are at whatever you’re doing. You might meet someone, you might not. But as long as you’ve had fun you won’t feel like you’ve wasted a trip. For singles cruises consider AMA waterways cruises
Online Dating Tips Are A Smart Choice
Online dating can be a total blast and the reason i say this is there are many more chances for you to meet someone that is suitable for you than you would if you were doing the traditional dating thing. In any case there are some things that you must understand about online dating, as there are a handful of dangers with online dating.
This means that you should look for online dating tips that are able to show you the correct and more importantly, safe way of going about looking for online dates. Date Safely There are some truly comprehensive online dating tips available that will help you in meeting your special opposite number in a safer manner.
These online dating tips will provide invaluable advice on the proper way to go about looking for online dates and in addition these online dating tips will also reveal to you how to meet your online date, travel overseas as well as how to get married. The first aspect of online dating that you will do well to find some useful online dating tips is how to get started with online dating.
These online dating tips should show you how to understand whether or not an online dating site is going to be safe, are your personal details accessible, is there enough profiles on the site so that you have a good chance of meeting someone, and convince you to be totally honest when using online dating. The next aspect to using online dating tips is to find out more about spamming as well as being aware of the many scams that abound on the Internet. Spam is generally the emails that are sent to your junk mail folder and solicitation is another no-no in which people try and sell you something.
Scammers will try to appeal to your emotions and they also target everyone and anyone and will cause people to lose a lot of money. Finally, it is worthwhile finding out from useful online dating tips about how to get married to someone that you have met through an online dating site.
Other things that the online dating tips should explain are, how to check someones marriage status, and how to saty totally away from any abusive type of relationships. Further, the better online dating tips must also teach you to keep your emotions under check and also be sure that you understand various divorce as well as separation rights before proceeding with the marriage.
Creating a personal user profile will be one of the very first things you will have to do when signing up for online dating. Making use of the available online dating profile tips is a good choice as it will help you get started off in the best way possible. You must know how to insert details about yourself, upload a photograph, and create a site user ID.
Are You In The Dating Game
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist, writes… …
Are you tired of wading through one date after another to find Mr. or Ms. Right? If you’re dating after divorce and it’s time to get back into the mainstream again, Then you’re probably not dating just for the fun of it. In other words, it’s not a sport or a hobby for you. Most likely you’re looking for interesting conversation with another like-minded individual. Someone with whom you can find a common ground with, and enjoy good dialog.
Whether you are tired of browsing the on-line dating sites, want to find the love of your dreams, or just ended a long term relationship, it’s time you consider dating consciously.
Would you like to get clear about what you want and then zero in on attracting fun dating companions?
Your thoughts create your reality – so wouldn’t you like to know what’s really behind those pesky thoughts that keep you going through dates like the proverbial ‘revolving door’?
How about getting to the meat of the issue, creating a fun game around dating and then get the outcome you’re after — to find a really fun and loving relationship.
Is your curiosity peaked?
I know it is!
I’ve encapsulated my tried and true Law of Attraction approach of winning the dating game. It’s called Dating Consciously. Just for the fun of it I’ve designed a 3 Part Series on Dating Consciously designed to get you moving in the higher vibration of getting what you really want, whether that’s having fun dating or attracting a fun and loving relationship.
In the first of this Dating Consciously Series I’d like to address “The Game” portion of The Dating Game. Dating is a GAME!
First, let’s define the word GAME…
1. Game:An amusement or pastime.
2. Game: An activity where you compete it involves endurance or skill on the part of two or more persons who play according to a set of rules, usually for their own amusement or for that of spectators.
The second definition sums up the way most of us feel about dating.
But, if it’s not fun, something is out of alignment.
For many, the latter definition contains elements that take the FUN right out of the pursuit of dating. Those elements are:
Competitive activity, Skill, Chance, Endurance and Rules. These are definite fun-busters!
Curiously enough, these are precisely what you want to stay away from when dating.
FIVE Things To DO When Dating
1. Play. Simple as it may seem, most people don’t think of dating as play. Remember when you were the innocent kid playing in the mud? How sublime was that? No agenda, no comparisons. Just easy play! Even if your date is a serious type. Make it your game to find fun. You don’t have to see them again if they aren’t playful.
2. Laugh. A cousin of play, laughter is very contagious. Before going on any date, especially a first date, remind yourself that you will consciously look for reasons to feel good and laugh. Don’t go out without your smile. Just smile for no reason.
3. Listen. This is such an important way to connect with your date. Deep listening is when you shut off the voices in your head and tune in to what the person across the table is saying. Granted, your critical voice may be wanting to sound off for a variety of reasons. You don’t like the way he slurps his soup. She constantly plays with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Just notice yourself being distracted and bring yourself back. Again, you don’t have to see them again. Being present is important and will go a long way in building intimacy later on. Adopt this quality in your long term relationships by practicing now. By the way, this is an excellent practice in general with all relationships.
4. Eye Contact. Don’t just make eye contact and nod your head. Practice deep listening while making eye contact. This is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can promise you, your generosity will come back to you.
5. Communicate. When it’s your turn to share, confidently offer your ideas. Expect the same attention. You haven’t interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption occurs, ask for the same manners. You can be polite and kind about this without turning it into a problem. Just kindly ask for what you’d like. Feeling confident in your request takes alot of pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you prefer.
Whether you’re in your 20′s or 70′s, dating – just like life – when enjoyed with lightness and ease, where there are no stakes at all, there’s no anxiety and everyone can win.
Deliberate Dating, Mature and Conscious Dating
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction RelationshipExpert, writes… …
For many dating is a scary game. In the first installment of Dating Consciously, the dating advice I shared was I asked … “What if I could show you how to get clear on your intentions before you get disillusioned by the dating scene”? I also said that “Your thoughts create your reality and if that’s so, wouldn’t you like to know what’s really behind those pesky thoughts that keep you going through dates like the proverbial ‘revolving door’?”
In Part Two, I’ll go more deeply into the aspects of playing where everyone wins. Play with Passion and Purpose. Dating is a game you can re-write the rules at any time. To play the Dating Consciously game, you need to know that:
1. You are playing a game
2. You willingly remember that it’s going to be fun (because you created it as a game for that purpose), and
3. There are only winners
Remember when you were a kid playing in the sandbox, making sandcastles or mud cakes? You could play for hours and hours. Simple, and sheer innocence. Try to access that innocence just for a moment right now.
Why have so many of us lost it? In the previous paragraph notice how quickly it returned – if just for a moment – but it did return! That’s exactly how you create a desired outcome. You pretend it into existence, you play it into reality for the sake of playing. And guess what? Your energy shifts so quickly to that light and high vibration, that unless you negate it with old patterns, you become very attractive. You’re energy is literally calling out to like energy to play with it.
The 2 Biggest Stoppers to Dating Consciously
1. Fear of failure/rejection
2. Fear of looking bad/not enough
1. Fear of failuse is a common experience Perhaps in your past a relationship or two hasn’t worked out. Welcome to the club. Choose to not take it personally You would grant anyone of your friends the space to move on after a relationship that didn’t work out. Considering that failing is just making room for a new experience. Play and be present. [Show up intending to have fun and learn something new, not to prove how great you are or how broken you are.
2. Do you have a case of the not-enoughers?
You feel that you’re just not good enough on some level. Consider that at the core, everyone has that ancient internal conversation, too. Most everyone at times feels low in self-confidence. You’re not alone here.
Do your best to remain present and on your purpose is to have fun. Think of it as an exploration. “What’s something new can I learn about myself or my date?” Now you’ve just paved an energetic pathway for your date.
Playing with passion and purpose is a simple way expand who you are in the moment. Play with self-expression with the focus on having fun. Purpose means deliberating intending what you’re up to. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.
The vibration of FUN is one of the highest around. Let go. You’ll become a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing that, eventually you’ll attract the perfect fun mate.
You can learn these tools and more with Relationship Coaching. Dating, like life, if approached as a fun game where there are no losers goes much more smoothly for everyone.